By kenneth05 , May 12, in Sex and Romance. Have you asked her why it makes her uncomfortable? Is it because she feels unclean, or pressured to perform as well? It is odd to me that she let you while you were dating, but not now, unless she really did not enjoy it then either and did it to present herself as more fun and now feels settled down and like she already has you I think depending on why she feels uncomfortable, you need to change your approach.
My Wife Absolutely Refuses to Let Me Perform Oral Sex
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The taste and smell are intoxicating. She is open and vulnerable to you. Her orgasms are powerful, and you get to witness her sexual pleasure in a very up-close-and-personal way. A few years ago I wrote a series at The Forgiven Wife about this very thing. She wants to be able to kiss you or look into your eyes. She is self-conscious about her smell and taste. What you find wonderfully intoxicating is embarrassing to her.
I'm A Woman Who HATES Receiving Oral Sex — Here's Why
Oral sex can hold a lot of weight in a relationship between two people. Domina Franco , a writer, sex educator and coach who has been studying human sexuality for over 20 years, recently spoke with She Knows and let us in on some tips to work through this situation, because if you ask me, oral sex is like being put under a magic spell, and if you enjoy it, you should get it. Franco advises if you have been in a relationship for some time and your partner has already expressed to you this is not something they enjoy or are willing to do, that is your answer and it should be respected. Franco strongly advises approaching this subject with caution, as no one wants to be criticized or feel threatened for their sexual preferences. Pay attention to what they are saying and how they are saying it because sometimes they may just be saying something to please you that goes against how they truly feel.
My first boyfriend never went down on me. Although he was totally fine with me going down on him , which I did begrudgingly, I never got any oral in return. It was then, at the age of 18, that I decided my vagina was a dirty, weird smelling place. If my friends' boyfriends loved giving them cunnilingus , then clearly something was straight up wrong with my vagina. It was an icky feeling to have, thinking that my vagina was somehow a big ol' mess.